Who cares that your world was shattered into a million pieces? Who cares that people hurt you and abused you again, and again and again? Who cares – you should.
What you have been through, matters. How you felt then, matters. How you feel now, matters. You matter. Even if no one on this earth ever cared about you – you should. You deserve your own love and compassion, and that is where your healing begins.
You can’t force a rose to bloom in the snowy winter when the ground is frozen. Let the rose rest. No matter how dark and cold the winter might seem, spring will eventually emerge with its warm, comforting winds. The sun will kiss the earth once again, and nature will come to life. Each season has its time, each season is equally valuable because it all contributes to the bigger picture.
Kindness can cleanse a murky heart and purify the darkest of minds. No words are needed – kindness is the language of your soul.
When you feel weak, you are actually at your strongest of points. It takes strength to get back up when every inch of your body wants to give up. It takes strength to fight battles most people only dream about in nightmares. You are making beautiful progress
Today, no matter where you go, what you do or who you are with – be kinder to yourself. You are doing the best you can, given the emotional state you are in. We all carry our own stories with us, but it is never too late to begin to write a happier ending.
You are not limited by your past experiences or held back by your mistakes. And you are certainly not defined by other people’s opinions of you.
Embrace all that you are, flaws and all – love yourself more each time you mess up and your pain will soon transform into your strength.
Does it matter if the road was once cold and barren, if the road you are on now is warm and comfortable?
Do you want to know what can heal a broken heart and a shattered soul? Love. Love can give warmth to the coldest of hearts and nurture your body, mind, and soul. Love is the answer to the question you didn’t even know you had.
Gemstones of happiness can be found everywhere throughout your day. It can be in the smile of your children or in the warm, cozy fur of a cat you are petting. Gemstones of happiness shine bright in such joyful colors, and once you begin to open your eyes, they are everywhere. Life is for you. Start enjoying the little things, and you will come to realize what truly matters in life.
OK, so you have been through a lot of awful things in your life, and people have treated you in horrible ways… that is all very sad, and I truly wished none of that would have happened to you. You deserve to be treated with kindness, love, and respect, and life should be fun and wonderful for you. But you know what, what happened to you has already happened. No amount of sadness, anger, or pain you feel NOW can ever make that go away. However, YOU can do something about how you feel today.
The first step might be to say to yourself, ok, I have spent enough time on feeling bad. It is enough. I really look forward to feeling better again, I want to feel good again. I want to smile, I want to laugh, I want to relax and enjoy life again. I will no longer hold myself back from all those wonderful things because I finally realize I CAN do something about how I feel today.
What truly matters in life 